Thursday, August 23, 2012

My Presentation

So tomorrow morning I am presenting to my Nonprofit Program Director and colleagues about my summer internship experience. For your reading pleasure, and to help me internalize what I wish to say, I am going to "give" my presentation here, slides and all!! It should be 15 minutes long when I present. 


Hello, my name is Cathy Phillips and I am a senior here at Rockhurst, graduating in December with degrees in Nonprofit Leadership, Psychology, and Spanish. I did my 300 hour internship this summer with Students for Life of America, located in Washington, D.C. I had an amazing experience in every aspect, and am excited to share it with you today.

So, 9 weeks in DC. Not only did I have an incredible learning experience with my organization, but I got to see a lot of cool sights. I have a few pictures to show you, just to get the fun part here out of the way. Pictured here is my host family, a retired but active couple with a border collie mix named Nola. Students for Life hosts a group of interns, so I was one of 6, and this is a picture of that group, minus Anne, who we didn't see as much outside of work. As you can see, we had some fun together, going to Jazz in the Sculpture Garden, the National Basilica on the 4th of July, and even taking a weekend trip to New York City. I met up with another Rockhurst friend doing an internship in DC, and even ran into an old acquaintance who I didn't expect to. Finally, we got to meet some pretty cool people, like Kelly Anne Conway, a strategist and pollster, and Supreme Court Justice Scalia. 


My 9 weeks was divided into 3 rotations, hence the title "Missionary." The whole time I reported to my intern supervisor at Students for Life, but the goal of this internship program is to give aspiring pro-life leaders a taste of different parts of the movement. My first 3 weeks were on Capitol Hill with Congressman Andy Harris, who represents the 1st District of Maryland. Next I spent 3 weeks in Manassas, VA, at the Students for Life headquarters. And finally I spent 3 weeks between the 4 area locations of Care Net, a network of pregnancy resource centers. Pregnancy resource centers, of which there are about 3,000 in the U.S., exist to serve women in crisis pregnancies by providing free, confidential, and always optional resources, information, and counseling. So I got a well-rounded experience of some politics, some education and activism, and some direct service. 


So what is Students for Life about? Their mission is to create a student pro-life movement that will lead the charge to restore human rights to preborn Americans in our lifetime. From the science of embryology and a philosophical understanding of all life as valuable, SFLA sees the unborn as human persons who have a fundamental right to life that should be protected by law. They want to see the repeal of Roe v. Wade, the Supreme Court decision that legalized abortion, and the companion case, Doe v. Bolton, which makes abortion legal through all 9 months of pregnancy. They work towards their mission by identifying, educating, equipping, empowering and promoting students, particularly college students. They seek to connect the national pro-life movement with students across the nation, not to re-invent the wheel. 


I knew a little bit about Students for Life, SFLA, before this internship, because I've attended the Conference they put on in DC, and their Midwest staff person has met with our Rockhurst group in the past. But I learned this summer just how much they do with a staff of just 11. The heart of SFLA is the Field Program, which meets students where they are at on their campuses. Currently there are 637 active pro-life groups on campuses across the U.S., and full-time Field Agents work and travel in their regions to start and grow even more groups, keeping careful metrics of their success. SFLA offers these groups a myriad of free resources and trainings. They put on a day-long National Conference every January the day before or after the March for Life, and this past year were sold out with 1,800 attendees and a theme of "Social Justice Begins in the Womb." SFLA is actively engaged in social media efforts through Facebook, twitter, and email blasts. Pregnant on Campus is a new initiative that is truly visionary in my opinion. 48% of abortions are performed on college-aged women, yet it's startling to realize what little resources campuses offer so that students faced with unplanned pregnancies can be empowered to continue their education while choosing to give life to her child. And finally, Med Students for Life, what its Director calls "the 2nd wave of the pro-life movement" was just launched, also visionary in that Medical Students for Choice is represented at virtually all of the 170 med schools across the U.S., but there had been no unified movement to support and educate pro-life medical students. Instead, med students are taught that abortion is part of healthcare. With groups at over 25 med campuses, we will start to see the tide turning. And finally, Law Students for Life is what's planned next. 


Here's a snapshot of the type of tasks I had at each of my locations, and next I'll go into more detail about what I learned from them. 


I've divided what I learned into 4 sections: Knowledge, Skills, Personal Growth, and Career Development. As far as knowledge, I learned how to be a part of a small nonprofit organization. With a staff of only 11, I got to know each of them and their roles in the organization pretty well. One thing that was brought up more than once was the concept of mission creep that we have learned about in class. As a small nonprofit, it's so important to remain focused. They are also seeking to redevelop their website, so I saw a con of a small nonprofit, in that the project seemed rushed to me. I learned how I would treat interns, or will treat them, when I am staff myself. I gained a lot of knowledge about American politics. And finally, I strengthened my confidence in defending the pro-life position logically and compassionately. 

I learned some technical skills like navigating software systems. Through weekly blogging on behalf of SFLA, I honed writing skills. I drafted a constituent response letter for the Congressman, and also drafted a letter to SFLA's board on behalf of the Executive Director. I learned how to be a good representative of an organization, in answering phone calls, and meeting donors in person at the Summer Social. At CareNet, I learned some technical skills as far as how to counsel and listen well. 


I could talk at length about my personal and career growth this summer. These are some of the main points. (don't need to type this out because I'll be able to elaborate easily)


Going to mention that I kept a personal blog this summer as well. 



Monday, August 6, 2012

Home Sweet Home

Haven't been online since Friday, but I'm home now!!

Leslie Chris and I drove 12 hours to Indianapolis on Saturday where they dropped me off, and then I made the remaining 4-hour drive with my friend Lindsey yesterday evening (she had been house-sitting in Indy).

Since then, I've done a lot of napping, and I think I'm about recovered :)

Here is the picture Leslie and I took with Maureen, Dan, and Nola before we left (regrettably, it's a little blurry). I'm going to miss them dearly! We gave them a printed picture of the two of us, and a card, and I wrote in the card that I couldn't have asked for better substitute parents for the summer.


It is really great to be home, though. And the fam is leaving tomorrow morning for a 3-day vacation at the Lake. Can't wait to spend time with them all after being away all summer, and hear all about theirs.

Thanks so much for following my journey this summer through my blog, to all of you that did! I hope you enjoyed it, and I hope we get to talk about it in person sometime soon. My next adventure: 18 credit hours and my final semester at Rockhurst. Also recommitting to the search for God in my daily life. 

If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me. Jeremiah 29:13

Friday, August 3, 2012

Everyday Heroes

You're pregnant. You see that the test is positive, your vision narrows, and all you can see is this huge problem that you have no idea how to fix. Though you can't think straight at all, your feelings are full-force. Afraid, shamed, scared, stuck, abandoned, judged, helpless... Of the very few people who know, you're being pressured in completely different directions. You've never been here before. You are so desperate for a solution. So where do you go?

(This is CareNet. If you ever find yourself in this position, you should go here!)
I wish that every woman in this situation knew about pregnancy resource centers. Places like CareNet, where I have spent the last week and a half interning. I can't even express to you how amazing these places are. These places very reason for existence is to serve women faced with unplanned pregnancies. To provide them information on their options, emotional support, material assistance, and referrals to doctors and financial assistance. But most of all, they give each client the gift of time: time to talk with a caring stranger-soon-turned-friend, and to process all that is happening within them, so that they can make a fully-informed decision that they can live the rest of their lives with.

I mean, how brilliant is that!? Let's think about this. Because of the way we were made, women can get pregnant...and they do. Sometimes pregnancies are planned or expected and sometimes they are not. In our society today, a pregnant woman has three options: carry to term and parent, carry to term and place for adoption, or have an abortion. Women generally know that abortion is an option, and can pretty easily find out how to get one, and if they wanted to place for adoption, they could google away. But do they know that  there are over 2,500 pregnancy resource centers with resources and a place to talk about their pregnancy? Which is a very miraculous and terrifying and mysterious and scary and amazing thing that can only happen, indeed, to a WOMAN. Pregnancy resource centers are incredibly pro-woman. We need these places.

 
Pictured here are some of my most recent heroes. On the left, Nydia, the Director at the Manassas Center; and on the right, Angel and Tasha, the Assistant and Director at the Woodbridge Center.

I am telling you, meeting each of these women has changed my life, or at least my summer, and in a dramatic way. You know when you meet someone awesome and almost immediately are like, whoa, I'm not going to forget this person. And then you spend some time with them, hear their amazing and courageous stories, work alongside them, and are like, "yeah I've gotta be creepy and get a picture with this person so I can blog about them later". That's how I feel about Nydia, Angel, and Tosha.

These women have all been there. When you first meet them, you'd never know what struggles they've been through. They are really friendly ladies, outspoken Christians, and dedicated to their work, usually glued to their computer screens. You might think they have no idea what a woman in a crisis pregnancy is going through. But everyone has a story. And because I like to ask questions, I got to hear each of theirs :)

One grew up in the worst ghetto in Brooklyn, used to constant danger, having to mature quickly. She thought that was all there was--until she went to college in Omaha and realized not every city is a ghetto. One became pregnant when she was seventeen, and chose to parent her child despite difficulty and lack of family support. The final story floored me. She was the daughter of an alcoholic who beat his multiple "women" (one of which was her mom) and was killed in a fight when she was young. Her mom did drugs, and because she was the oldest child, before the age of 10 she was cleaning up after her, and then became a drug-dealer herself. She got pregnant 3 times by the age of 19, and carried each child to term, dropping out of school. She met her current husband at that same age, and after many years of healing and slow change, she committed her life to Christ and has been forever changed since.

These women truly get it, and they truly care. CareNet is not all about "saving the baby"--they are about helping the woman, in whatever way she needs. They are about building her up, helping her to recognize her own strength, giving her the resources she needs, showing her real love.

In my week and a half at CareNet, I felt this love, too. I hope to have the courage, strength, and compassion that these women have. They are truly everyday heroes.

Can't believe it...tomorrow it's time to go home!!

Wow, guys. Tomorrow in the a.m., I leave for St. Louis!! I can't believe it! These 9 weeks FLEW by. I'm sure there will be more to come in the way of reflection on what I've learned, but for now I'll share my last blog post from this week, "Fear is Easy, Love is Hard": http://abolishabortion.com/blog/fear-easy-love-hard

Last night the Missionaries went out for one last time together. We ate at a local place called P.J. Skidoos, walked around the Fairfax Mall, and then went to Kline's for ice cream, one of those walk-up, summertime-tradition type places. We've had Kline's together twice before, so we wanted to continue that tradition and end it right. After what happened next, we were glad we did!

The man in front of us in line had a polo with Catholic Charities on it, so I struck up conversation and we told him we were interns with Students for Life. He got real excited and asked us to come sit with him and his son after we got our ice cream. As we were walking over to sit down with our ice cream, Anne, the 6th missionary who hadn't been with us that night because her parents were in town, heard people talking about Lila Rose (a pro-life "celebrity" of sorts), thought "who in the world could be talking about her at this ice cream place!?", turned around, and saw us! Crazy coincidence. So then, we had one great big pro-life conversation with the interns (plus Anne, who's not often with us), Anne's parents, and this random Catholic Charities staffer and his son! It was great!! haha. Truly, it was pretty cool.

Tonight we have a farewell BBQ at Kristan's house, and then Leslie, Chris, and I are beginning our 2-car caravan back to St. Louis. If the timing is right, I'm actually planning to get dropped off in Indianapolis and meet up with my friend Lindsey who is house-sitting there--and then we'll finish the 4 hours to St. Louis together on Sunday.

I cannot WAIT to be home! Mary and Julie, my sisters who also were gone all summer with separate adventures, have been home since last weekend now and I'm getting a little jealous. I wouldn't have wanted this ending to come any sooner, though. I've learned so much, even in this last week. This has been an amazing opportunity, and I have so many memories I will treasure.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Abby Johnson's book brought my attention to this verse...

'Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal...' (Phil 3:13) Goodnight all!

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

36 Things About My 36 Hours in NYC

1. Sleepover at Ruben's house Friday night since we had to wake up at 5am Saturday to catch the 6:30 bus. (found these crowns in Ruben's host family's house...I suggested a sleepover picture!)
2. Four and a half hour bus ride at the back of the bus with some annoying middle schoolers who wouldn't stop talking while I tried to sleep. 
3. Arrival at Penn Station, adventure figuring out the subway system to get to our hotel in East Village (near Chinatown). The subway system is a lot like DC's metro, but just exponentially more complex. It's also disgustingly hot and humid inside the underground stations. Like, being inside a mouth. Like, it's not even worth it to take a shower if you've gotta go down there. Gross. 
4. Eat at Little Italy, a really picturesque place and yummmm. Feel like I'm Julia Roberts in Eat Pray Love. 
5. Get to Times Square. Taking it all in, at first I'm stupefied and loving it. After about an hour, I'm like "dang, it's suuupper crowded and really quite dirty here. I'm kinda over it." But really cool to see it. 
6. We get $32 student tickets to Mary Poppins at the Amsterdam theater (on 42nd Street!)
7. Wander around Times Square, visit the huuge Toys 'R Us store, and Hershey's store.
8. It starts raining, so we take temporary shelter in Sbarro. Walk to Rockefeller Center, see NBC studios, among other cool Rockefeller center stuff. 
9. Realize we're one block away from St. Patrick's Cathedral, the Basilica of Archbishop Tim Dolan! Walk up to the Church right in time for 5:30 mass. God provides!

10. Walk back to 42nd Street for Mary Poppins. MIND IS BLOWN BY BROADWAY. Absolutely magical show. Musicals can really have an incredible effect on me. I was ecstatic at the end and beaming at the employee in the aisle next to me, who smiled gently back, probably laughing to herself at the star-struck Midwestern. I am just thrilled that we got to experience this show. 
11. Experience Times Square all lit up! Pretty amazing. (reppin' the 3-1-4 once again)
12. Sleep 5 people in a room for 4 for about 7 hours. Aren't we cute?
 13. Wake up early(ish) to depart for Williamsburg, Brooklyn, otherwise known as "hipster central," according to our very own hipster, Ruben. Actually ended up being one of the coolest places we saw in NYC in my opinion.
14. It used to be one of the worst ghettos in Brooklyn (a woman I work with at CareNet told me this--she actually grew up there!), but now is a super artsy young sorta-thriving area. We saw the Flea Market on the riverside, ate one of our most delicious meals ever in a local eatery, and saw a beautiful skyline view of New York.
15. Hop back on the crazy subway. See an impressive independent performer (there's a whole bunch of musicians who utilize the subway users as an audience).
16. On our way to the 9/11 Memorial, experience a street show by 5 guys who did break-dancing and gymnastics, and really commanded the crowd in a powerful way. (Clap! Come in closer, guys!), and by the end were pretty uncomfortable because they didn't just ask for money, they almost robbed with kindness. They were very clever and smart (making it a contest for which state would give last, etc), but it was borderline not okay.
17. Visited the World Trade Center Memorial. Very powerful.

18. Get back on the subway, have an emergency bathroom back necessity and get off the subway.
19. Realize that we wouldn't have made it to Central Park anyways, (by now it was 4pm and we had to leave for our hotel to grab our bags by 5pm to make the bus)
20. Decide to walk back to our hotel, and do our activism on the way.
21. Yes, activism! Read this awesome post by fellow intern, Lindsey, about the experience! The previous week we had ready-ed flyers about Obama's extreme pro-abortion stance coupled with SFLA's "ivoteprolifefirst.com" initiative. Education pieces encouraging pro-lifers to vote pro-life first. Also see my blog post about why voting pro-life first matters.
22. It started raining again. Took shelter in Urban Outfitters.
23. Made it back to our hotel to grab the luggage we had left there, and high-tailed it to Penn Station.
24. Four and a half hour bus ride back.
25. Drive thru DC back to Ruben's (we had parked at Union Station), realizing how much we LOVE Washington DC. It is so clean and so pretty and so calm compared to NYC!
26. Sleepover again at Ruben's since Leslie and I live an hour away and had to work early the next morning.

27. New York was really awesome, and I'm glad we went, even though it's definitely not the city for me. Just too darn big and busy and dirty.
28. But it was an incredible melting pot of ethnicities and races, and that was cool. I've never experienced anything like it.


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29. I'm only at 29! That's awkward. But you know, I guess I did sleep for about 7 hours, so technically I only had 29 waking hours in NYC. So count yourself lucky because I'm cutting myself short tonight. That's my trip in a nutshell!

Now I can say that I've been to New York City for more than a 2 hour layover with my family back when we flew to Sanibel Island (and still managed to buy an I Love NYC shirt).

I must admit, this has been in my head since: "I want to wake up in the city that never sleeps..."
New York, New York!!

Last Wednesday: All on the anniversary of Humane Vitae

So I've got a lot to update you on, since I haven't written in a while. Last Tuesday I revealed that I'd be meeting Justice Scalia, and the following day--I did! Here's a summary of last Wednesday:

Technically I didn't meet Justice Scalia, because there were about 50 students in our group, and we just listened to him speak and then answer questions for about 30 minutes total...but I was sitting front row directly in front of him! It was a very neat experience, even just being inside the Supreme Court Building. We even got to sit in the Court itself after hearing Justice Scalia speak. The Justice certainly commanded the room ("why don't you stand up when you ask that question? it shows some respect"), but he was also incredibly amiable and humorous ("wow, we've got a crowd...I should've been charging!") He began with 2 remarks, first about the beauty of the American system of government, and then about the subject of "judging judges" on their decisions.

For all my lawyer-hopeful friends out there, he gave in response to a question some advice: 1. Make sure you actually love the law. That's essential, because you'll be immersed in it. 2. Live a balanced life, don't just work. Care about the people in your life, make time for hobbies and don't develop tunnel-vision. and 3. Work hard, of course.

Can you spot me??
Since it was too late to go back to work, the Missionaries decided to go to the Holocaust Museum, something we'd been wanting to do all summer. I had never been before, and was eager to experience it, in a strange combination of excitement and dread. The most well-known part of the tour is that each visitor gets an identity card, with the name of an actual person who experienced the Holocaust. As you make your way through the exhibit, you turn the page of the booklet, and at the end you find out if you survived. I did not. 

The most powerful moment for me was walking through the railcar, one of thousands that were used to mass-transport the people who were to be exterminated at the concentration camps. About 100 people were crowded into each car, sometimes not seeing daylight, food, water, or a bathroom, for days. I forced myself to linger in the car for a few minutes with my eyes closed, imagining the horror. 

Elie Wiesel, Holocaust survivor and author of 57 books, including Night, is one of the most famous and powerful voices from the Holocaust. Here are 2 quotes from him that should strike a deep chord within us all: 
  • “There may be times when we are powerless to prevent injustice, but there must never be a time when we fail to protest.” 
  • “We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.” 
After the Holocaust Museum, we checked our phones and Ruben, another intern, had messaged us about an opportunity to see a preview showing of the film Obama's America: 2016 by Dinesh D'Souza. The showing was at a theater in Georgetown, and we decided to go. The documentary presented some interesting facts, and was aesthetically impressive. However, I struggled to leave with any strong convictions about Obama's "real plan" for America. I don't doubt some of the facts, but the film was definitely conspiracy-like, and I wouldn't adopt all its theories without lots more questioning, as is my inquisitive nature. 

Then we walked around Georgetown a bit and found Johnny Rockets for dinner. A full day!

P.S. It was the anniversary of Paul VI's encyclical Humane Vitae (Human Life) on Wednesday, which made the experience of the Holocaust Museum even more compelling, and even Justice Scalia's remarks about justice.